There might be few days or may be months (majority of us) went through anxiety attacks either knowingly or unknowingly..
Above written are the few major causes of anxiety… Nowadays, according to a survey majority of young adults are undergoing through severe anxiety attacks and I was literally shocked to know the cause behind it was majorly family and peer pressure..
Yes, since every coin has two sides.. Family is the biggest pillar for our achievements and success but it also has a bad side.. I have seen my own friend’s relative training her daughter to do all the things her elder cousin does and to scold her if she couldn’t do it better than her… What do you think what her family’s inculcating in her..
1. Jealousy for her own cousin or increasing her ego that she can never be the loser..
2.What if someday she lost, than what?? will she be able to accept her defeat..?? Most probably not because she always wins against her cousin.. Hence her family is bowing the anxiety and jeously seeds in her purest soul..
The motive of her family could be pure..
They want their child to be the best.. They want their child should compete and win and learn all the aspects of life.. They want their child to learn from her elder cousin but the way of developing personality may lead to conflict in future.. How??
The way of speaking her family is statement 1. telling her that you can never lose to your elder sister you are born to win.. Read the statement again..!!
Now statement 2. child you have to learn a lot of things from your sister and no matter you win or you lose but it’s important that you should learn everything..
See the difference in both the statements and if you find few families inculcating these values in their child try to stop them for future loss… Because it’s not possible to win every time and all of sudden to accept defeat is life threatening and thus severe defeat trauma leads to anxiety..
People should understand anxiety is really really traumatic.. Better late than never.!!
Thank-you so much for reading… I hope you liked it..